Why do we have to have perfect grades in order to be smart? Why do we have to have the perfect relationship in order to be in love? Why do we have to be making large amounts of money just to be happy?
For some, the constant thought of perfection is a light switch in the brain that cannot be shut off.
The search for perfection is stressful, time-consuming and exhausting.
Why are we so afraid of failure?
Instead of seeing failure as a positive way to learn from mistakes, failure is seen as not being good enough.
We feel that society plays a key role in why everyone strives to be perfect. Magazine covers are painted with gorgeous models with slim bodies and hair as beautiful as their dazzling smiles. Why are these individuals seen as “perfect” and why do we want to be them so badly?
In 2014, “weight loss” was number one on the list of the most common New Year’s Resolutions.
According to Mirror-mirror.org, when we think of the “perfect woman,” we think of a tall, thin 5’10’’ model who does not weigh more than 120 pounds. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, the average American woman is 5’4’’ and weighs about 169 pounds.
In 2014, Victoria’s Secret launched their “The Perfect Body” campaign, which was extremely controversial. The advertisements contained thin, gorgeous models that were modeling their lingerie. The title of their campaign was changed after all of the negative press it received. Do women have to be thin in order to have the “perfect body?”
Who created this standard and why does everyone want to be the same? When will society accept the fact that we are all different individuals. We do not need to conform to one set standard of perfection. Why can our differences not be celebrated?
In a positive light, Dove produced a “Real Beauty” campaign that exhibited non-photoshopped women of all shapes, sizes and ethnicities in lingerie. This campaign was made to celebrate individuality and was seen as a way for women to be appreciative of their bodies, celebrating the fact that not everyone is a size zero.
Aiming for perfection can actually be more exhausting and detrimental for one’s health.
We, as the Loquitur staff, believe that instead of worrying about getting the perfect grades, society should focus on the content that is being taught. Instead of trying to mold the perfect relationship, laugh at mistakes, keep an open communication and enjoy each other’s presence. Instead of worrying about income, focus on what is being learned and the tasks that are completed at the end of the workday.
At times, it may feel like no matter how hard we try, we will never be good enough. Something to remember: We will never be perfect — and that is okay.
