Being an aunt of five at 20 years old

By Victoria Boland
November 7, 2019

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I will never forget that day. Running into the hospital unaware of what was happening. Being told there was a surprise waiting for me.

Oct. 2, 2006, was the day I became an aunt. I entered the hospital room and saw my family members gathered together. After everyone moved, I saw a baby lying in my sister’s arms.

I remember thinking to myself I will forever love and take care of you. 

Victoria’s niece and nephew enjoying a picnic at the park. Photo by Victoria Boland.

My first nephew is named Ryan. He was always at my house when we were kids. Since I was only 6 years old, I got jealous because my mom would give most of her attention to him when they visited. It was hard at first having a baby around, but I got used to it. 

As the years went on my family grew. My sister got married and gained a stepson. Later on, she had a beautiful baby girl. Now my sister’s children range from 3 years of age to 15 years old. 

My brother added some additions of his own. He had a daughter who is 9 years old and a son who is 6 years old. 

Victoria’s niece having a fun time in a soapy bucket of water. Photo by Victoria Boland.

I am turning 20 years old and I am an aunt of five. An article written by Magen Sanders discussed how it is a nice alternative to be an aunt rather than being a parent. She said, “You get to spoil your nieces and nephews and receive the devoting love for a child. But since they are not your own children you luck out on the temper tantrums and can return them at the end of the day.”

Every day, month, year that I have seen my nieces and nephews develop into their own individual fascinates me. I am so grateful to have been a part of it. 

BuzzFeed staff writer  Zakiya Jamal discusses tips on being a cool aunt. One that stood out to me was “you’re their go-to person for knowing what’s cool.” I have noticed as my nieces and nephews have gotten older, they have talked to me about problems before going to my sister and brother. I find it very touching when they come to me since I know they trust me.

Being an aunt from such a young age has taught me a lot of life lessons earlier on in life. I have learned the value of responsibility. When I am watching my nieces and nephews I have learned it isn’t just me anymore. I am taking care of another human being’s life and I take that task with great responsibility.

Another value I have learned from being an aunt is patience. Kids take a while to do the simplest task and I think this has helped me in my everyday life to be more patient with simple tasks like waiting in line at a store.

Victoria with her nephews and sister at a Halloween party. Photo by Victoria Boland.

An article written by Nicole Poole provided tips for being the best aunt. One that stood out to me was that “you don’t need to strive for perfection.” When dealing with kids there will be good days and bad days. Kids enjoy seeing you be human and make mistakes so don’t be afraid to make a mistake here and there. 

One thing I would share with individuals who are lucky enough to become an aunt or uncle is to cherish the small moments because time goes by in a blink of an eye.

Being an aunt has changed my life for the better. Every day is a different journey that I have to take with my arms wide open. Being an aunt has given me a purpose.

I love each and every one of my nieces and nephews. The goofy memories, the babysitting, the laughs, and the tears. It is truly beautiful to watch life be born and grow.

Victoria and all her nieces and nephews preparing to trick or treat in their spooky costumes. Photo by Victoria Boland.

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